This I dedicate to all my friends and your friends, who selflessly helped me through this hard times.. I would never have been able to be where I am if if weren't for them. You've left me with a legacy of loving, supportive friends.
Do you know of someone
Whose precious brother has died?
Perhaps she is a neighbor or friend
With whom you can confide.
You assume that she is suffering
A tragedy so deep,
That there is nothing you can do
Since all she does is weep.
You feel that if you see her
There is nothing you can say
That would make her precious brother come back
Or make the pain go away.
And if by chance you meet her
And have to face her grief,
You'll do your very best
To make this meeting brief.
You'll talk about the weather
Or the lady down the lane,
But you'll never mention her brother-
That would cause her too much pain!
And when the funeral's over,
And all is said and done,
You'll go home to your family,
And she'll be all alone.
She'll go on, she'll be all right, time heals-
Or so it seems,
While she's left alone to pick up the pieces
Of her shattered life and dreams.
You can open your heart
And find that special place
Where compassion and true giving
Are awaiting your embrace
"Today I'm thinking of you in a very special way,"
Or, how about "I love you!"
Are some loving things to say.
Sometimes a very simple task
Like picking up the phone,
Can help her feel not-so-quite
Whatever comes from a genuine heart
Cannot be said in vain
For the truth is, it's these very things
That lessen her great pain.
And when you let her talk about
Her brother who is now gone,
You'll know this is far greater
Than anything you've said.
So will you reach out with all your soul
And let her know you care?
For in the end there's no substitute
For simply BEING THERE!
*A poem by Debi L. Pettigrew, which I've altered a bit..
Thank you..all of you..in all the things you have done, in all your messages to me, in the very act of kindness that you've shown me. My brother, would not have wish for better friends than you and I keep telling myself, through the things you have shown me, that my brother's Life was not short. It was FULL.